Our first outing into the countryside was on a day-long
village tour, called A Day in the Life. Though we only drove about twenty
minutes out of Siem Reap, the area felt very rural and like it was worlds away
from town. Suddenly, the roads
were dirt, the houses were bamboo, and electric wires were non-existent. And the scenery was gorgeous, wide-open
spaces and very green, with palm trees everywhere. After stopping to greet the village chief, we set off on an
ox-cart ride, which was really fun and allowed us to see houses and fields way
off the main path through the village.
We spent the rest of the morning at a family’s house in the village,
learning about their daily activities.
First, they taught us how to thatch, and we wove together dried leaves
to be used for roofs or walls of the houses. Thatching was actually easier than I thought it would be,
and it was a lot of fun. Then, we
prepared lunch, which took quite awhile.
We started by mixing together some spices and vegetables, but, instead
of stirring them together in a bowl, we chopped everything on a cutting board
until it was all ground together.
Then we added prahoc, a salty paste made of fermented whole fish (bones, fins,
and everything) – prahoc is
unique to Cambodia, and probably not something that needs to be exported! Lastly, we added red ants – yes, ants,
a whole pile of them with their legs all tangled together – to the paste. The ants were alive when we added them,
but most got chopped up while mixing them into the paste. Cambodians eat this fish/ant paste
either raw or cooked, and we cooked a portion of it in a banana leaf over
charcoal. Once the cooking was
done, we had lunch with the family, eating the paste (full disclosure: I didn’t
actually have any, more out of repulsion by the fish paste than the ants) along
with rice, chicken, and mango.
After leaving the family’s house, we visited a local
monastery, which had beautiful buildings and dozens of small shrines holding the ashes of
deceased Buddhists. We learned a
lot about Cambodian Buddhism during the visit. One of the things I found particularly interesting – while a
small number of people become monks for their entire lives, much like Catholic
priests in the U.S., most Cambodians stay at a monastery for a week or so as
young adults to experience living as a monk. We ended our time in the village by visiting a primary
school nearby. Most students in
rural Cambodia go to school six days a week, for either the morning session
(7-11am) or the afternoon session (1-4pm). Students try to get into the morning session if possible,
because everyone knows the afternoon sessions are not as good, since most
teachers don’t return from their lunch break on time. We arrived at the school around 2:00pm, at which point there
were no teachers around, and all the children were playing outside. Seeing this obviously raised the
question of how the government or school administration could better motivate
teachers to show up on time – but that’s a big question for another time.
The following morning, we set out early on a sunrise bike tour, which offered not only beautiful
views but also another chance to see village life. We left town on our bikes at about 5:00am, and it felt very
rural again within about half an hour of riding. Just outside of town, we stopped to watch the sun come up
over a rice field, which was beautiful.
We then climbed to the top of a small hill, considered by Cambodian
Buddhists to be sacred, which offered great views of the village below and the
lush countryside. This stop also
gave us an opportunity to talk more to our guide, and he told us more about
Cambodia’s history and societal norms.
He talked a lot about marriage in Cambodia, and said that arranged marriage exists but is
becoming less prevalent, and that dowries are always paid to the woman’s
family. I also found it
interesting that, after the wedding, the new groom typically leaves his family
and moves in with the bride and her family.
Next, we biked over to a monastery, similar to the one we
had visited the previous day, where we met some monks and nuns, who gave us
delicious dried mango and told us about life in the monastery. One of the nuns said she moved to the
monastery when she started getting older, as there are no nursing homes in
Cambodia, to become a nun and focus on finding enlightenment. Our last stop on the ride was at a
local market, where our guide treated us to a typical Cambodian breakfast of
rice pudding, which was pretty good.
It was like a clear porridge with rice and pieces of chicken, as well as
chunks of what I thought was tofu covered in something but turned out to be
congealed cow blood mixed with an unknown solid. It was fine as long as you didn’t think too much about what
it was. Regardless, we were
pleasantly shocked that, as the only foreigners around, we were able to look
around in the market and sit down to eat at a table full of Cambodians without
anyone hassling us at all.